When the time comes to move into assisted living, stress levels often run high. Moving isn’t easy for anyone at any time, but trying to sort through a lifetime of memories to know what to bring to a new place can seem overwhelming for an older adult. Here are some tips we’ve put together in the form of a packing checklist to help seniors and their families decide what is appropriate when it comes time to move.
Downsizing: A senior assisted living facility offers many of the comforts of a private home without the need for maintenance, but it does typically involve a smaller space than the home a senior is used to. Families can help their loved ones with the emotional aspect of downsizing by keeping family heirlooms and cherished belongings in the family – as long as they have the final say about what happens to each item. When the assisted living community is chosen and a room assigned, families can measure the new place and help their loved one decide what can fit into their new home.
Adaptive Devices: One of the main reasons to move into an assisted living facility is to help with ADLs. There are caregivers onsite to help residents with the assistance they need, but packing adaptive devices is prudent. Mobility assistance devices such as a “grabber” tool are ideal for those who may have trouble reaching items, and safety rails can be installed in the bathroom or near the bed.
Assisted Living Packing Checklist
Every assisted living facility is different, and the residence may or may not provide items. After determining the footprint you have to work with, choose those items most likely to create a safe, familiar environment that inspires peace and happiness, surrounded by memories.
Home Furnishings:
- Familiar bedding sets, specialty pillows, and comforters that will facilitate a good night’s sleep.
- Artwork and framed photos of family members and happy occasions.
- Standing lamps or table lamps for ample lighting where it is needed.
- Comfortable chairs, small sofas, recliners, nightstands & end tables that are familiar.
- Showpieces, knick-knacks, and other keepsakes that have emotional appeal.
- Kitchenware such as silverware, plates, cooking utensils, pots, and pans as needed.
Personal Necessities:
- Alarm clocks
- Clothing hangars
- Small appliances such as a coffee maker or mini-refrigerator for snacks.
- Television or radio
- Favorite books, movies, or games
- Any needed eyeglasses, hearing aids, and walkers
- Personal toiletries
- Medication & Prescriptions
Clothing:
Because space is limited, you may not be able to bring all of your loved one’s wardrobe. You may wish to pick all of their favorite pieces for each season, but store other pieces offsite to bring if they ever need anything extra. Remember also that most assisted living facilities will take your loved one shopping as required.
In addition to undergarments, sleepwear, and one dress or suit for formal wear, consider the following:
- Inside shoes/slippers
- Comfortable walking shoes & formal footwear
- Comfortable everyday clothing
- Clothing appropriate for fitness or rehab
- Winter jackets and sweaters for cooler weather.
What Not to Leave With Family Members
Senior living residences are a wonderful solution for older people who want to live independently while still having support and supervision from caregivers, nurses, housekeepers, and cooks. But the facilities are also communal, which means many people have access to the rooms. With that in mind, valuable and collectible items should stay off the packing checklist and home with trusted friends or family. Also, because of the layout and space limitations, the following items are typically not appropriate:
- Kitchen Appliances
- Overly large furniture
- Space heaters
Personalizing Your Space
Designing a new living space that is familiar and matches their personality will make a move to assisted living facility easier for seniors. Smaller items that reflect their style can personalize the space and may include: travel mementos, handmade crafts from their grandchildren, cherished photos, personal artwork, and favorite pillows or blankets for the furniture.
Some assisted living residents permit their residents to keep small pets. Pet ownership is very beneficial for mental and physical wellness, as the connection between seniors and their pets can be very strong. Be sure to pack everything they need, including favorite bedding, food, necessary medications, leashes, kennels, or gates.
Before The Move
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